There are toxic personality types that make a point of seeking out people upon whom to unload their bad behavior and manipulation. A drama queen, for example, is far more likely to seek out a person who is highly reactive than one who isn’t. They want drama and a centered person is not going to give it to them easily. So, they go for the easy targets.
1. To understand how toxic people choose their targets
2. To look at yourself and identify behaviors or attitudes that might be making you an attractive target for toxic people
3. How your view of conflict attracts toxic people